"Cover-Up" Shy

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Just took O-chem midterm #2 of 3. This time..not so bueno :(. Sigh..so now I eat ice cream and read one of my fave blogs: http://melissabxoxo.blogspot.com/.

The writer is a girl with a physical disability, looking for love. I can identify with probably 80% of what she writes about.

This post particularly. It's about dating shy girls, heh.
"Determine what kind of shy your girl is.
  • If she is vague and trails off when speaking, she is conversationally shy.
  • If she is outgoing, but never gets past the small talk, she is cover-up shy. You might feel like she is hiding who she really is, when in fact, she may have been hurt in the past and is afraid to open up.
  • If she withdraws when you touch her, becomes more quiet or just changes herself in order to send negative signals, then she is physically shy."
I never knew there were so many types of shy's. I think I'm a cover-up shy.
Actually..maybe a hybrid of all three..

This cracked me up:
"Warnings:
  • Remember, shy girls are usually emotionally tender, so please, for Pete's sake, be K-I-N-D!
  • Dating shy girls may lead to problems of mistrust, doing most of the work, and having a lot of quiet awkward moments. Its best if you are already a good talker.
  • Avoid asking her why she is so quiet. Trust me, they get annoyed with that. They've heard that a thousand times. Give her time... a lot of time."
Hahaha..Amen to that last one.

Man. All this time I thought there was something seriously wrong with me. I'm just shy, dangit.

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